YES
If you don’t have any feelings for him anymore
This is the absolutely essential prerequisite before thinking of anything else. Indeed, making love creates attachment through the creation of oxytocin, and a feeling of love through dopamine. If, deep inside you, there are still feelings, then they will be increased tenfold. And if it’s not reciprocated, then you will be very depressed.
If it’s a really good move
Having said that, it is now necessary to objectively evaluate the pleasure that you are going to derive from it. Because, honestly, going back to see someone with whom it was average… No way! And this, even if you like it, if he or she really wants it or, even worse, if you do it because you are very hungry. Because ease rarely brings bliss.
If you want to have fun
The idea that must prevail in your approach: fun. This therefore means that there should be no romantic feelings but also, ideally, that there remains enough complicity between you so that you are not embarrassed. You know him/her well, and that’s a big plus: he already knows what you like, don’t like, and vice versa. You should take advantage !
NOPE
If he hurt you
Even if water has flowed under the bridges, a bad memory remains etched forever. If this person has disrespected you by cheating on you, lying to you, bullying you, never go back there! And even if you think he has changed. You risk reopening a very painful scar…
If you want revenge
To say to yourself: “He will see what he has lost”, it is the bad idea. Already, because you are not irreplaceable, sorry! Then, because it clearly risks being zero if you start with the idea of a performance and you put too much pressure on yourself. And also because revenge means trying to attract attention. Which can quickly be pathetic…
If you feel it way hot
Obviously if, in front, you have someone who is not very receptive or contemptuous, it is also not. The reciprocity of desire must be at the origin of this return to bed. So, above all, do not go into ignition attempts on a clearly burnt-out engine. You risk humiliation: having him or her sleep with you, then telling you that you really don’t regret that you are no longer together.
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The players of this home escape game are invited to a Roaring Twenties evening and their mission is to guess the rumor circulating in the mansion. Arriving early, they will question each servant in search of clues… An investigation to jazz tunes, with a final resolution by way of information that will shock all your guests: you are expecting a baby! We couldn’t find a more original way to announce it. Escape game to download on escape-kit.com, €19.90.
The foot for your perineum
The Perifit — a fabulous accessory that lets you build your pelvic floor while playing a video game — has a new version. Thanks to even more precise sensors, its smaller size and its curved shape, it adapts even better to the movements of the body. What to say definitively stop incontinence… and yes to even more pleasure! Perifit +, available for pre-order on perifit.co at a price of €189 instead of €249.
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Anabelle Gentez