Social media platforms, particularly TikTok, pose risks to children’s mental health through harmful viral challenges. Parents are encouraged to discuss these online trends with their kids to foster open communication and understanding. Child psychologist Samuel Comblez highlights the importance of parental engagement and setting clear rules against such challenges in schools. He warns against excessive monitoring, advocating for trust and support, especially for children facing bullying. Resources like the 3018 app offer confidential help for those affected.
The Impact of Social Networks on Children
Do social media platforms negatively affect your children? In recent years, numerous viral challenges have emerged, particularly on TikTok, raising concerns about their potential to harm mental health. Recently, several new challenges have made their way into schools, including “The first one to move is gay,” the “Superman dance,” which entails being tossed into the air by peers, finger-burning while mimicking rapper Jul, and even locking oneself inside a suitcase. The array of trends that could result in physical harm or bullying is extensive. Some parents remain unaware of these online activities, while others hesitate to discuss them with their kids. This reluctance is a mistake, according to Samuel Comblez, Deputy General Director of the e-Enfance Association and Director of 3018, an organization dedicated to combating bullying in all its forms.
Encouraging Open Conversations About Digital Life
According to child and adolescent psychologist Samuel Comblez, parents should engage in conversations about these online challenges with their children. “Many parents fear that addressing these topics might draw attention to them, inadvertently promoting the behavior. However, it’s crucial to discuss these issues and highlight their dangers,” he emphasizes. Parents must recognize that their children have a digital presence, and it’s essential to take an interest in this aspect of their lives. Instead of only asking about their day at school, parents should also inquire about their experiences online. Questions like “How’s everything on TikTok?” or “Have you encountered anything troubling on Snapchat?” can help open the dialogue. This way, children feel more comfortable sharing their experiences, whether they are victims or witnesses of bullying.
Not asking these questions can lead to a lack of communication, as children may not feel inclined to approach their parents when they notice something unusual. Understanding why young people engage in viral challenges is important for adults, as is establishing guidelines and boundaries. For instance, school administrators should clearly state in their internal regulations that participation in these challenges is strictly prohibited and that consequences will follow for those who violate this rule.
However, Comblez warns against excessive surveillance, which could backfire. “Monitoring your children’s messages, confiscating their phones at night, or pretending to be their friend to infiltrate their social circles is not advisable,” he cautions. While prevention is key, maintaining trust is equally vital.
If your child is experiencing bullying linked to challenges like “the first one to move is gay,” Comblez stresses the importance of reaching out to a trusted individual, whether it’s a parent, friend, or teacher. Additionally, resources such as the 3018 app provide support from professionals dealing with bullying issues, available anonymously and confidentially, seven days a week from 9 AM to 11 PM. “The most important thing is to ensure that no one has to face these challenges alone,” concludes Samuel Comblez.