Hape Kerkeling, a cherished German entertainer, explores his ancestry and first love in his latest book, “Give Me Some Time.” Approaching his 60th birthday, he reflects on family secrets and the impact of his heritage on his identity. He reveals the challenges he faced regarding his homosexuality and the emotional weight of his past. Kerkeling also speaks out against rising far-right ideologies, emphasizing the importance of democracy. His journey is one of self-discovery, resilience, and advocacy.
Hape Kerkeling: A Journey Through Ancestry and Love
Hape Kerkeling stands out as one of Germany’s beloved television entertainers and a celebrated author. In his latest book, “Give Me Some Time,” he embarks on a heartfelt journey to uncover his ancestral roots while reflecting on the poignant tale of his first great love. Kerkeling’s personal revelations throughout this exploration have profoundly transformed his life.
Unraveling Family Secrets
As he approaches his 60th birthday, Kerkeling is honored with a documentary by ARD that chronicles his remarkable life. This introspective journey into his genealogy has led him to a deeper understanding of himself. “I must say, yes, it has changed my life significantly,” he shares. “Before, there was a black hole when I looked into the world of my ancestors. Now I look into a lit tunnel and at least recognize silhouettes.” He expresses amazement at the striking parallels he has discovered with his ancestors, revealing how their lives have subtly shaped his own.
Among the family legacies he uncovered is a recurring motto: the act of hiding. “It is quite obvious that the game of hiding has repeated itself over centuries,” Kerkeling explains. His ancestor, Barent Kerkeling, had to conceal his Catholic faith in Calvinist Amsterdam, a pattern that has echoed through generations.
Reflecting on his own experiences, Kerkeling acknowledges that he too hid significant aspects of his identity for many years. In the 1980s, his homosexuality remained a taboo in the entertainment industry. His memoir recounts the painful story of his first love, whose life was tragically cut short by AIDS. “It is much easier for me to write down these feelings than to talk about them,” he confesses, revealing the emotional weight tied to this chapter of his life.
During this tumultuous period, Kerkeling was also gaining fame from his successful TV show “Total Normal.” He recalls the struggle of balancing two vastly different worlds, stating, “On one hand, it was terrible; on the other hand, it was a welcome distraction.” He highlights the complexities of life, affirming that even amid the darkest times, the pursuit of hope remains crucial.
Speaking Out for Democracy
In recent years, Kerkeling has felt compelled to voice his political opinions, particularly in response to the rising influence of far-right ideologies in Germany. “I must honestly tell you, until a few years ago, I was not aware of how much I care about democracy in my home country,” he admits. As he recognizes the threats facing democratic values, he encourages others to take a stand against right-wing extremism.
As he approaches his milestone birthday on December 9, Kerkeling shares his simple wish: “What all older gentlemen wish for, who are still somewhat fit: health, health, and once again health.”
This insightful conversation, conducted by Simone Hulliger, sheds light on Kerkeling’s remarkable journey of self-discovery, resilience, and advocacy.