We live too fast, everyone says it. But what are we chasing, exactly? And what impact does this frantic race have on the quality of the relationships we wish to maintain?
“The majority tired. » I recently heard this expression at an event I was attending. I was struck by its simple truth.
This tired majority is in a hurry, and this has, among other things, an impact on the time they have to obtain information. She does so quickly, superficially, absorbing scraps of information here and there, often through more or less reliable media. This creates a vicious circle where disinformation intensifies, exacerbating the misunderstanding of social issues and further promoting the dissemination of false news. To hope to break this cycle, the tired majority must take the time to inform themselves in depth, check their sources and adopt a critical approach to information.
Let’s take care of our minds. Quality information is essential to developing our full potential and to an accurate understanding of the challenges we face.
Take time
In this age where the race for time seems to be our daily lot, “lost” time has a deeper meaning than we imagine. It is important to remember that freeing up time to “do nothing” is not a waste, but a real investment. It is in moments of tranquility and perspective that the most precious human bonds are forged and that the ability to truly care for others is born.
The first step toward this reconciliation with “wasted” time is to listen. But listening goes way beyond just hearing words. To truly listen is to offer your attention, put down your cell phone and respect the words of others.
It means recognizing the importance of what he or she expresses, a gesture of generosity that builds bridges between individuals and reduces ambient polarization. By actively listening and seeking to understand different points of view, we contribute to a more constructive dialogue and a more harmonious society.
Taking time to reflect is also crucial. It is by questioning ourselves that we grow, that we evolve. It is necessary to allow yourself moments to question yourself, to take stock of your values, your actions and your convictions. As someone who had a big impact on my life said, it is important to “take the time to look in the mirror every morning and ask yourself how you can do better than yesterday.”
During my meetings with community organizations, volunteers and donors, this is undoubtedly what I hear about the most: the lack of time and the speed at which everything is happening now. I believe that polarization comes partly from this speed at which we are moving: no time to analyze, to compare, to understand. In 6.4 seconds, our opinion is formed, final.
The courtesy
The fatigue that I perceive in my interlocutors during these meetings also seems to result from a certain general lack of courtesy.
What happened to courtesy? This often underestimated quality is of great importance in our daily interactions. It is not only the reflection of a caring and respectful society, but it can also be an essential ingredient. It involves acting with kindness, patience and respect, no matter the circumstances.
By abandoning “I-me-me” for more collective thinking, we help to build strong and lasting bonds, and to create an environment where everyone feels listened to, respected and included.
Each individual forms a link in the social fabric. Every gesture, every word has an impact. Last week, during a call with a donor, he told me: “I am not able to give more this year, Mr. Pinard, but there is no question of me skipping a year. » It was one of the most beautiful calls of my week, because it symbolized all the desire to contribute that we find in so many of our fellow citizens.
Thus, by giving ourselves time to listen, to reflect, to cultivate courtesy, to inform ourselves in depth, we become conscious and responsible actors in our society. Each of us can be a positive force, contributing to a stronger social fabric and the development of all. An example ? By giving up an hour of social media in favor of an hour of listening or volunteering.
By taking care of ourselves and others, we create an environment conducive to collective development. We are putting in place the solidarity required to get through the next year, which seems to herald some challenges to our resilience.
Until then, I wish you first of all rest, and wonderful waste of time. The goal for 2024: move from the tired majority to the inspired minority.