Jill vandermeulen experienced one of life’s most painful ordeals. At the end of July, the 33-year-old young woman, revealed in 2005 in the show star Academy, confessed to her subscribers that she had miscarried. A subject that the mother of a girl and two boys brought up again on November 10, on her Instagram account.
Miscarriage is not the only traumatic event for the woman who experiences it. The aftermath is just as difficult and the pretty Belgian wanted to underline it. It is in fact synonymous with “intense stress” and “anguish“, especially because of the remarks she has been subjected to for three months. It was pointed out to her that she looked”tired and emaciated“, she was asked if she was still not pregnant or to stop thinking about it for example.”Yes in fact I am tired, I am exhausted even morally, I am sad and disappointed every month. I feel like crying as soon as I see someone else’s pregnancy. Yes I’m impatient, I think about that and it tortures my mind. Yes I have a billion questions and misunderstandings while I put absolutely everything in place every month to make it work“she wrote.
Jill knows that as a public figure she should always seem in a good mood. And between her job and her personal life, she must “manage 10 caps“and put your emotions aside. A difficult mission, especially since it is the target of criticism and”malicious people“on social networks.”The aftermath is as painful as the moment of the drama, because it is only made up of doubt and painfully long waiting 3 weeks a month !!! It is very heavy for the emotional well-being of a person. We must stop putting extra pressure in speeches to women who are waiting for this. Stop saying you have to be patient, WE are NOT! It is impossible when it comes to such a strong and important desire “, she continued.
When Jill has the good fortune to get pregnant again, she will be sure to tell her family and subscribers three months later. In the meantime, she hopes she won’t receive any further pressure.