Like many people on this Sunday, I was surprised by the cancellation of the Pride Parade. This parade that brings together a community, an exposure to the rest of society. A time when everyone can be themselves, when we can celebrate the diversity of being.
Because yes, still in 2022, there are taboos and we must keep this showcase to educate, raise awareness and inform people about what it is to be 2SLGBTQIA+.
After the messages from frustrated friends, others disappointed, others revolted, I wondered about the reasons for the cancellation. Was it really the lack of 80 security volunteers that caused the parade to be cancelled?
If that was the case and if I was a member of the committee, I would have called my sister, my mother, my friends, my cousins, my friends’ friends to say: I need you now! I would have gone out of my way to avoid canceling an event where sponsors, media, artists, politicians are involved. At the same time, I was not there when the decision was made. So who am I to judge?
Subsequently, I asked myself the question: why not get involved in this committee? Why not support my community? It is often said, a small gesture can make the difference. Maybe my presence would have changed something in this situation!
According to the data I found (from 2007), 37% of Quebecers volunteer, compared to the national average of 46%. Canada has nothing to envy us on this point. After the past two years, I believe we need to pick up the torch and help our communities even more.
We are probably the most social democratic society, or almost, in North America. Where is our sense of mutual aid? By writing these few lines, I am judging myself. When I was young, I volunteered for different organizations. Adult, no! I lost that sense of giving back and giving of my time.
So, we may cry foul, cry injustice, but if we had been present, involved in the organization of this event which represents our community, of this week of pride, this situation would never have taken place. . In a way, we only have ourselves to blame. I take good note of it and know that next year, I will be present for my community and I will be there to support the organization. Even more, I want to be part of this organization and make sure this situation never happens again. A lack of volunteers should not be the reason for the cancellation of a parade.
Let’s be proud of who we are and a little support, even one evening of volunteering, can change everything. It’s up to you and me to change the situation. So, see you next year? Let’s give nobility to this week of pride that makes Montreal a unique city and proud of its authenticity around the world.