Communicate
If you’re looking for love, you have to start by saying it. Because people won’t guess it! A little joke at the butcher, then another day at the bookseller and, eventually, it will become known in the neighborhood. There is no need to be ashamed, you are very far from being alone in your situation. And you will quickly realize it by talking about it to those around you…
Chat!
Too old for dating sites? No, but it’s not okay or what? On the contrary, it is the ideal place to find a soul mate after 40 because at least those who are there are a priori emotionally available. And let’s be clear: you don’t have to have sex! Sites like Disons Demain are, on the contrary, focused on friendly encounters, much more than passionate ones. If you really suffer from your loneliness, you have nothing to lose by trying.
Get out!
No, you are not going to a nightclub or a rave party. But that doesn’t mean you can’t have fun! And for getting together, we couldn’t find anything better than having a drink and dancing. Think of balls, which turn out to be much less old-fashioned than one might think, but also of concerts. A common musical taste is already the beginning of a song…
Militate!
It’s the assurance of meeting people who are like you. Environment, migrant rights, development aid, participation in an Amap, a union, a political party, you are spoiled for choice to find what suits you. The emotions drawn from these struggles are an ideal breeding ground for feelings to grow.
And above all… Dare!
Remember: no matter how old you are, you still please people. So put your negative ideas aside, put away your bitter pout and believe in your potential for seduction. On a daily basis, this means that we don’t let ourselves go. We do our hair, we put on makeup if we like it, we dress in clothes without stains or holes… In short, we make others understand that we take care of ourselves and that we respect ourselves. If you don’t love yourself, no one will.
Seniors we would like to meet on Meetic
- Patrick Dempsey
- Sophie Marceau
- Jon Hamm
Anabelle Gentez