It’s in Love is in the meadow 2017 (M6) that viewers were able to discover the sparkling horse breeder Julie. The charming 39-year-old blonde had finished the adventure with Jean-Michel and had an idyll with him after the filming. Unfortunately, it didn’t work out between them. Where is she in her love life today? She responded exclusively to Purepeople.
Where are you in your loves?
I’ve been working on myself a lot lately. I admit that my relationship with Jean-Michel was really complicated. She made me open my eyes to a lot of behaviors that were wrong with me. That is to say the side I forget myself. Big awareness on this by telling myself that I never want to forget myself for another. I met a friend who is very dear to me too. He’s my best friend but I’m very much in love. I feel like he’s the man of my life. So a lot of work on abandonment, resilience and letting go of this story. Today, I’m waiting to see what life has in store for me. I don’t necessarily seek because my feelings are quite strong, so it doesn’t matter if it goes one day further with him or not, I let myself be guided. Today my heart has chosen. But if it’s not going to be him, maybe we’ll put someone else in my path. Anyway, I’m already busy professionally.
What would be a deal breaker in a relationship?
A person who does not respect me, who lies to me – which Jean-Michel did – and someone who is not going to love me for who I am. With Jean-Michel, it lasted a long time because I wanted to help him because I think he was suffering. Except that he had absolutely no desire to be helped. There was this desire on my side to change it so that it corresponded to what I expected, when I realized that it must automatically correspond to us, that we don’t have to change the other for it to work. So I want to find someone who has the same desires, the same expectations and the same feelings. If I don’t have that, I’m not interested. I have worked on myself so much that loneliness is not a problem.
Could you participate again in Love is in the meadow, like Thierry this year?
I admit that I asked myself the question. I know I would live it differently. I would not go to the end without a crush at the start, like in 2017. I would live it with fewer expectations, more letting go and in agreement with what I would feel. But do I need this today? I am not sure. At the time, the show was a way of making myself known from a broader point of view. Today, I realize that I can meet people. There are social networks for example. I think fate leads us to meet the right people. But I have no regrets about this experience. She gave me the chance to meet my best friend.
Do you still receive declarations of love?
No, but on social networks there is something that really shocks me. Because I did the show, people approach us by saying: “Hello, are you okay?”. They know us because they have seen the show or have been following us for a while. And they address us as if they know us. It shocks me terribly. I would never approach someone without introducing myself. We make a presentation so that the person opposite knows who he is talking to. Recently, someone said to me: “Hello, how are you? Can we get to know each other?” I bug every time and I tend not to be very friendly because I find it aggressive. I don’t know if I’m the only one feeling this. This is a way of forcing people to get to know each other. If you want to answer and then realize that there is something wrong with the description, that puts you in a very unpleasant position. We have to tell the person and end the conversation. I find that particular. It happened to me before to be blocked like that and to say that I am not interested. I find it nasty whereas if the person shows up, we know if we want to get to know each other or not.
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