Have children, a condition for happiness ? In France, a quarter of couples fails to achieve a desired pregnancy after twelve months of attempts. The “parenthood” shelves of bookstores are full of books to accompany new parents, but there are few books on how toapprehend and of live better with infertility.
People who are unsuccessful in having children may have difficulty find their place in our society. At the microphone of France Bleu, Marion de la Forest Divonne shares his vision and his infertility experience : our happiness should not stop at the expectation of having a child one day. Author, illustrator and personal development specialist looks back on her experience and how she discovered her infertility.
Discover and accept your infertility
Some life situations are difficult: find out about infertility is part of. The stage of having a child may seem essential to some: it is a flourishing sign and of accomplishment of oneself. Yet many people and many couples have no children : This is’a choice for some, ofan impossibility for others.
There is no journey Where normal pattern when we meet infertility : some are confronted with it early, others take longer, some fear it on a daily basis without necessarily undergoing it … We can wonder about His origin and on how we can overcome it (have recourse to assisted reproduction, adoption, etc.).
Through this test of life, society seems to guide us little in these intimate choices. Marion de la Forest Divonne come back to this sometimes impossible to control from birth, which must not condition our access to happiness.
Having a baby cannot be controlled, but we can try to control our way to be happy ! The author of the book The fertile souls reacts to testimonials listeners to France Bleu and delivers its touching personal story : while she was writing her book, she had the happy surprise to discover that she was finally going to become a mother.