In a recent article, Sarah Hyland discusses her traumatic experience in an abusive relationship, which lasted from 2009 to 2014, while filming ‘Modern Family.’ Recently honored with the Variety Courage Award, Hyland emphasizes the importance of discussing domestic violence and its psychological impacts. Despite her ongoing PTSD and feelings of guilt, she advocates for open conversations about abuse. Hyland found love again with husband Wells Adams and continues to inspire others facing similar challenges.
Sarah Hyland, renowned for her role as the feisty teenager ‘Haley’ in the hit comedy series ‘Modern Family’, faced unimaginable challenges during her time on the show from 2009 to 2020. Throughout at least four years of filming, she was caught in an abusive relationship with her ex-boyfriend Matt Prokop, who even had a guest appearance in the series. Breaking free from this toxic environment demanded immense strength, leaving lasting scars on her life.
Sarah Hyland’s Ongoing Struggles: ‘I Could Have Left Sooner’
On October 24, 2024, Sarah Hyland received the inaugural Variety Courage Award, celebrating her advocacy for animal welfare and awareness surrounding domestic violence. During her heartfelt acceptance speech, she highlighted the necessity of openly discussing her experiences, stating, ‘If we are more open about it, more individuals in abusive situations will feel encouraged to confide in loved ones rather than allowing their abusers to isolate them.’
Hyland continues to cope with post-traumatic stress disorder stemming from the abuse she experienced. She often reflects on her past decisions, questioning whether she could have acted sooner to escape the turmoil. ‘It lingers in that wounded part of your soul, leading you to believe it was your fault all along, that you could have done better or spoken out earlier,’ the 33-year-old actress shared, expressing her feelings of guilt.
A Firm Boundary: No Contact with Her Abuser
Sarah emphasizes the importance of discussing the mental ramifications of abuse instead of burying them. ‘I’m not sure if this wound will ever completely heal. It will always leave a mark on your soul. It’s about embracing that scar rather than resenting or ignoring it,’ she explained during her speech. Three years after her tumultuous relationship, she found love again with her husband Wells Adams, establishing a safe and supportive partnership.
Hyland and Prokop’s relationship lasted from 2009 until 2014. Legal documents reveal that Prokop exhibited violent tendencies, making multiple threats and even attempting to strangle her. Since October 2014, he has been prohibited from contacting Hyland. As a result of these incidents, Prokop has struggled to find acting work and currently operates as an OnlyFans model, as indicated on his social media.
During her challenging times, Sarah received unwavering support from her ‘Modern Family’ co-star Julie Bowen. In her remarks to Variety, Bowen lauded Hyland for her resilience in overcoming her trauma. ‘Without hardship, there’s no way to truly understand your character and self-worth. Sarah’s journey has compelled her to confront both physical and emotional adversities since her youth. She has faced each obstacle with remarkable determination, grace, and vulnerability. I am thrilled that ‘Variety’ is honoring her courage and compassion with this award.’
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