Emily (34-year-old real estate negotiator) and Frederick (40-year-old real estate agent), are 84% compatible. The only downside is their strong character, which earned them a big fight during their honeymoon in Prague. Fortunately, they managed to have a discussion quickly and moved on, but everything quickly deteriorated between them.
The misunderstandings multiplied between the mother of Lina (1 year old) and Frédérick. Between her demanding job and her life as a single mom, Emilie could only give her husband a little time, who lives in the south more than 800 kilometers from her home. And the latter took it badly not to hear back from her one evening. He felt like he woke her up by calling her when Emilie assured him no. “It pissed me off a bit. If I hadn’t called, I wouldn’t have heard from her until the next day. I felt it as a lack of consideration“, he was annoyed. Hurt by his remarks and his lack of understanding, Emilie hung up on him. And one day, she did not contain herself and went too far in her words with her husband.
As the situation continued to escalate, Emilie made the decision not to go home as planned. “We have crossed a threshold where for me, it is not tolerable. I can’t get over it. (…) It’s a big disappointment“, regretted Frédérick For his part, the young woman explained that it was simply because he did not like being stood up to him.
End of the marriage of Frédérick and Emilie
At the end of their tether, they called on the expert Estelle Dossin to try to save their marriage. Emilie admitted that she had spoken hurtful words but quickly explained that there was a reason. The expert let them know that they had to learn to play down, that it was important to know how to forgive themselves. If Emilie was ready to move forward, Frédérick was more reluctant because he was afraid that it would happen again in the future. He was still aware that he had to water down his wine.
Despite their good resolutions, the situation has once again deteriorated the days after. They therefore met at Frédérick’s in Hyères to have another discussion. Amber’s dad regretted that his wife threatened him several times to stop everything. Emilie accused Frédérick of protecting himself too much and being tough at the same time. Not feeling serene in this relationship nor respected, Frédérick made the decision to divorce. A desire shared by Emilie.